Case29：Should I be pressured by human pressure to continue working?

 

twenty-ninth sign	Category: Work and Life Issues Assistance The first mountain, the second mountain, the mountains are far away, the sky is high, the smoke and water are cold , and the Acacia maple leaf is Dan. The chrysanthemums are blooming, the chrysanthemums are remnant, the Saiyan Gaofei people have not returned, and a curtain of wind and moon is idle . Sauvignon Blanc Li Yu
poetry	word to express love . The woman climbed high and looked into the distance, hoping to see her husband returning, but there were only mountains in front of her. Flowers bloom and fall, time passes like water, and the woman's youthful appearance also quietly fades away in the changes year after year.
main appeal	Should I be pressured by human pressure to continue working? Hello, I am currently working at a dessert brunch for 1 year and 8 months. Since these days at work, my boss is my god sister and treats me like family, but at work I always say that public and private should be clear , but Even the annual leave is based on my situation and decides whether to give it or not, and even ask me to work overtime without asking me for overtime. After coming down, he kept targeting me, and he kept asking me to do housework like a housekeeper, and also to do all the big and small things in the store . It turned out that I was very tired and didn't rest, my work status was not good, and my ability to study was poor. I often talk to the boss like chickens and ducks, which makes him almost mad at me, and I don't do anything myself, but because I think she is his sister, I don't blame him, but after a long time, part of it can be regarded as a favor . At first, I would beat and abuse me. I was thinking about whether I should continue to be pressured by human relationships and should leave this workplace. Here 's one more thing, the reason why he would call me so fierce is because she said she wanted to train me to be a store manager
Health check result	Xinxin EAP little expert responded: Bullying should not be justified
Remark	The "jun" drug in this case is the business side and mentality side of Xinxin's supervisor . The questioner's sister should be in the right place in business, and should learn to respect and stop bullying mentally. The appropriateness of the "Chen" medicine is to give the questioner room to play. If there is any need, they should communicate it. If it can't be improved, they should change jobs categorically.
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